LOVE??????????????????????????

Give me a reason to love and I will. Was thinking about for quiet some time how to reveal this truth to myself. And today when I finally decided to, I am all the more blunt and audacious to face it unlike many other times. Its just so beautiful to be in love.....for few fine months of the year...and as the time gradually moves on the relationship starts revealing its true colors, and people attacked by the cupids arrow end up just so frustrating with their relationships mostly going haywire. And why the hell I am blabbering such nonsense about such a beautiful word called "LOVE"? When each and every individual hopes to find the dream man or the dream women of his/her life? Well, no not because I am broken hearted and trying to sooth my heart....but yes because I have seen actually how crazy people get after being in love. The more peace it gives, the more insane you tend to become. This is the irony of love. You deny it but you cant simply cant disagree with it unless you have just started dating!!!Often I try to comprehend the experiences that my Friends who are seriously committed going through all that...blah blah blah...."you don't call," "I don't have time", "You never understand","your mom is too rude"," our future is uncertain","you are not the one I fell in love with".....Actually, there are dozens of such eerie conversations and you will agree they are endless! So basically, what I exactly wanna ask, to just everyone what is so beautiful about it when the charm of this four letter word vanishes away in just 4 days? Do we love to ruin already screwed up Life? Or do we love because we love to fight? Or do we love because the world is doing so? Or just because flirting is our one favourite pass time? Or ....forget it, otherwise people who are in love will kill me for this!Before ending my weird note about LOVE, I would just say, never love for just the sake of it, and if you think you are truly in love, let go off all kinds of personal enmities and ego...On a serious note there is nothing called as "Ideal Love", or "My dream Man, my dream girl"(Maannn...all dis gets on my head!) .....love is when two individuals don't come together because they are in love, but because they are in love with the right person. So, strop making fun of your relationship, if you have entered the paradise, don't let it turn into hell....All the best :)