FOR ALL YOU LOVE BIRDS OUT THERE!

We all are in Relationships. We all suffer and still we love them. Because they are the ones which give us a reason to live, to smile, and to cry for. That's the irony of relationships. The most sensitive of all relationships is between a girl and a boy. The mars and the Venus. It can take years to build it and a minute to destroy it. It is the one that is closest to everyone hearts be it in a positive or a negative sense. If we all want and desire to be love and to be loved then what goes wrong? Here are some tips that will help you to think, analyse and then decide what where do you stand!

1. INSECURITY: The biggest threat. One tends to become insecure because one is Possessive. If Possessiveness can become a reason for intimacy it can also become a reason for differences. It is essential to be secure about your relationship. have faith in them. And that faith should not necessarily be expressed by words. It's presence make its own space between the two.

2. SHOUTING FOR FREEDOM: Now, this is just like you want to have everything. How can one be so selfish and demanding. If you are desperate about the word "FREEDOM" in your life then I am sorry but you are not meant to be in one. I often see people shouting; "We Need SPACE"! Ask yourself If you have decided to spend your entire life with a person and you are ready for the commitment what kind of damn space you need?? It does not means en slavery or surrendering your egos. It means adjustments. Either you settle or you don't. Next time whenever you start feeling suffocated about your relationship, let all doubts sink and first thing you should think about is What kind of freedom I need? And if I do Do I deserve it?

3. LOVE IS WHEN YOU WANT TO SEE THE OTHER PERSON HAPPY: Your own happiness is important, so never forget it, or ignore it but always take care the person you love is also happy with it, is also a part of it. this might sound a bit Cliched but this will help you sustain your relationship. Never let it go just like that. Believe it or not but the true love is one where you care for that person no matter what, no matter how much he/she hurts you, misunderstands you and in the heart of your heart you still know for yourself its all for the others happiness. No pretensions, no showoffs, a true love is one where you always make the other person happy, live for him/her without even letting him know.

CELEBRATE LOVE!